Our Mission for Lifeline Youth Ministry: is to live a full life of wonder, discovery and passion in and through Christ
Middle School and High School teens are not only taught that God's love is real, they are encouraged to apply what they learn to their everyday lives. Pastor Jean Schafer leads the teens through real and practical ways to live as a Christian at school, home and in the world. Through Sunday morning classes, weekly youth group gatherings, mission trips and special events, teens are equipped and encouraged to develop and grow their own individual relationship with God.
PONDER this...how does being thankful hel you experience more joy?
3 opportunities to connect: Sunday evening Lifeline, Sunday Morning 11th hour, and Thursdays Face-to-Face
Youth Group - Every Sunday 5-7 pm: Dinner/game/small group discussion
New Series: Hide and Seek
Senior High/ Middle School
Week one: Choosing Joy > Chasing Happiness
Week two: The Roller Coaster
Session Two: Bottom Line: God can turn something broken into something beautiful. Life can be a roller coaster sometimes. One week is great. The next week is terrible. And it seems like it’s always something different that makes or breaks it: your dating life (or lack of it), how you played in the big game, how well you did on the test, and a million other things. Most of us try to enjoy the good moments and hide from the bad ones. The problem is that no matter how we try to hide it, cover it, or stuff it away, pain is a part of life. It’s something we all experience. But that doesn’t mean we have to be stuck in it forever. There is a way through the mess. And if we’re willing to allow Him in, God can use the most broken parts of our lives to build something beautiful.
This new Youth group strategy is called XP3
This strategy combines two influences that impact students: Church and Family
click here: orange vision.pdf
Parent Cue: designed to cue parents so that Both parents and students can have apoint of conversation about a subject matter, and learn from one another. The parent cue also provides content to encourage parents to fight for their relationship with their teenager.
Scroll to the bottom of page for Week 2's parent info.
Sunday 11th Hour. Get prepared.
Seeking Justice: Exploring God's Perspective Ten Minutes at a time
"What does it look like to be transformers of the World?"
Learn ways to make a difference
Face 2 Face (2:45-4:00ish ) without facebook
A time to build relationships
Youth have time to just BE WITH one another.
One week a month: Youth will BE WITH those who attend our Adult Day Care Program that is housed in the church. They will bowl, play cards, bingo, box hockey and other such activities. Youth bring something NEW to these adults when they visit.
February 2, Cooking and Serving the Homeless
2013 -14 Mission Events/ Opportunities
Serve your church on Sunday: Choose to "Set the Table" for hospitallity. Check with pastor Jean for details.
This ministry starts at 7:30 am and ends with the cleanup, typically 12:30 pm. Team with another family to make it fun.
monday and thursdays: Help with Childcare during ESL Classes in Whitehall.
Contact Pastor Jean for a ride.
July 6-11: Transformation Zone, Central Ohio missions
July 19-26: High Gate, Jamaica, $1500, $50 deposit by Sept.29
1. Be a Student of What They are Learning
“I just can’t let it go.” “They don’t deserve to be forgiven.” “It hurts too much to move on.” Maybe you’ve heard your students say something like this in the midst of pain, frustration and anger towards someone who has hurt them—or maybe you’ve said or thought something similar yourself. Choosing to forgive someone who has hurt us is never easy. So why does it matter so much that we do it? How do we know when we should do it? And how do we know we have actually healed from the pain an offense has caused? How do we simply let it go?
2. Be a Student of Your Student
I can think of multiple times in my life when I’ve been in an emotional stand off with someone over something they did or said—or maybe something they didn’t say or didn’t do. Taking the first steps towards getting back on good terms is simple enough—in theory. But saying the words “I’m sorry” often feels like it costs too much. So, too often we choose silence in the hopes that time will fix it, instead of intentional reconciliation.
Unfortunately, not apologizing can be costly—maybe even especially to the relationship with our teenagers. Maybe sometimes you don’t want to apologize because you know that they are the one who did something wrong. Maybe in reaction to something your son did, you lashed out and said something that was a little harsh—but you excused it because his behavior was completely unacceptable. Or maybe you found yourself sneaking through bedroom drawers just to squelch some rising suspicions and it really broke your daughter’s trust—but you were justified in what you did, so an apology seems unnecessary. You didn’t do anything outside of your parental rights, per se, but your son or daughter feels hurt, betrayed or angry.
Saying I’m sorry can be so hard. Admitting you’re wrong, or that you even had a small part in an argument or bad situation, can physically hurt sometimes. It doesn’t sit well. On the other hand, when someone has apologized to you, or you have made the first step towards reconciliation, something distinct and compelling happens. There is a sense of relief, of vulnerability and calm. All from simply saying—or hearing—“I’m sorry.”
What is it about an apology that can be so powerful—both for the receiver of the apology and the one actually apologizing?
To understand this a bit more, we want to share some excerpts from an article entitled “The Power of Apology: How to give and receive an apology. And it’s worth it, on both ends” by Beverly Engel featured in Psychology Today in June 2013, and taken from the book The Power of Apology by Beverly Engel: (To read the full article, go to http://www.psychologytoday.com/articles/200208/the-power-apology.)
As you read, try to focus on the bolded words—on what giving an apology does—and try to imagine these action words taking place in the context of your relationship with your son or daughter:
“Apology has the ability to disarm others of their anger and to prevent further misunderstandings. While an apology cannot undo harmful past actions, if done sincerely and effectively, it can undo the negative effects of those actions … Apologizing helps us remain emotionally connected to our friends and loved ones.…
So, the next time you find yourself in a stand off with your spouse, a co-worker a friend or even your son or daughter, remember that more is on the line than just your pride and sense of justice. The future relationship, the ability to stay connected to and vulnerable with that person is on the line too. The words “I’m sorry” may be hard to say, but they are always worth the effort!
3. Action Point
The action point for this series is pretty straightforward: Apologize to your student.
But sometimes this is easier said than done. So what are some characteristics of a meaningful apology?
First of all, admit that you are truly sorry for the hurt or damage you caused. It’s easy with our students to unintentionally do or say something that they take personally. And even though we don’t always mean things the way they hear or experience them, the hurt that can be caused is still real to them. So, while you may not have meant to be hurtful, recognizing that someone else was hurt by your actions is incredibly important.
Secondly, a sincere and powerful apology includes an acceptance of responsibility. This may seem like the same thing as admitting you are sorry for the hurt you caused. But it actually takes this idea of admittance one step further. When you accept responsibility, you are not making excuses for what you did, which often has the effect of negating the apology. It’s like when your student says, “I’m really sorry that I dented the car, but the other driver was way too close to me and I couldn’t see them well out of my side mirror.” Too many excuses cloud a good apology with a message of “It really wasn’t my fault.” For an apology to be meaningful and sincere, you have to communicate that you take full responsibility for your actions.
And lastly, there should always be something in your apology that shows you have a desire to remedy the situation. You obviously can’t go back and undo what was done—or not done—but you can offer a plan to make sure it doesn’t happen again. So, if you’ve missed your son’s basketball game … again … and he is really hurt and angry, make a plan and offer a promise to get to one of his upcoming games. And then do it! An empty promise will only make the hurt deeper, so don’t promise what you can’t deliver. But be sure to offer some sort of a plan of action so that your son or daughter knows that you will work towards not repeating the action that hurt them in the first place.
Take some time to think through what a meaningful apology might look like for your son or daughter. And then, go say the words that make all the difference in the world—I’m sorry.
Get connected to a wider community of parents at www.orangeparents.org.
Colorado Mission Trip Pics, June 2013
Garden of the Gods Orchard Mission Work Praying Hands Ranch
Meet our Youth Staff
Pastor Jean Donna Wieneke Emily Doran Dave Stewart Lisa Kelly
Each youth must have a Health and Medical Consent Form on file with the youth pastor. This form must be updated annually to insure the safety of each youth. Thank you!
Please click on the appropriate form below. Forms can be brought in to church or emailed to Pastor Jean Schafer.
Confirmation -new class in 2014-15